#SoManyReasonsToSmile2020 "Just be yourself and stay true to your core values." When I moved to Dubai in 2012, I was appalled that I wasn’t able to enter some of the most trendy clubs without wearing a pair of heels. Despite the fact that I grew up wearing dresses as a figure skater, I’ve never really been known to be a ‘girly girl’ and wearing dresses and heels isn’t exactly a regular occurrence for me. I’ve evolved A LITTLE since then, but still, I don’t ‘dress-up’ very often. A few weeks ago, a guy was surprised when I mentioned that I rarely wear (or even own for that matter) make-up and heels and he preceded by wishing me good luck in finding a date. Of course, his blunt reaction and snarky comment did not sit well with me. For a moment, I wondered: ‘Is this really what all guys look for? Is something wrong with me? Do I need to make some changes?’ However, after some time passed, I reminded myself that just because I don’t meet this individual’s standard